Shyness

There is a story told of a shy young man who desired to improve his technique with the ladies. He thought perhaps he might find some pearls of wisdom in the local library. So off he went but was embarrassed to ask for help and proceeded to roam the aisles at random. He located a book whose spine cover bore the title "HOW TO HUG". He thought this might be a beginning and rather than checking it out he tucked it in his coat and rushed home. When he opened it he found it was the Sixth volume of the Encyclopedia Britannica H O W  TO  H U G . The moral here is always ask for assistance, it might get you a date with the librarian.
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